Your mindset is huge when it comes time for labor and birth. Positive affirmations – or birth mantras – are a great way to flood your brain with positive thoughts and give birth with confidence!
It may seem silly, but labor affirmations can be a powerful tool. Whether it’s your birth partners saying them to you, you reciting them to yourself, or that little voice in your head cheering you on, these positive statements can help ward off the negative thoughts and improve your birth experience.
When to use birth mantras
Your birthing experience will be affected by a lot of things. Creating a positive mindset surrounding birth starts at the end of pregnancy!
You can start with pregnancy affirmations and then move on to some powerful birth affirmations. It can be extremely helpful to practice beforehand! Creating your desired mindset can make a huge difference when it comes time to give birth.
Eventually, these sayings will become part of your subconscious mind. You’ll feel the stress melt away as these positive phrases move you towards a calm birth.
Whether you are planning a natural birth, water birth, a c-section, or plan to use forms of pain management, using birth mantras can help you have a positive experience.
Research behind labor affirmations
A study found here concluded that using positive birth and labor affirmations can reduce anxiety and the length of labor. When we reduce anxiety, we reduce the perception of labor pain.
Let your birth team know if you’d like to utilize these during your birthing process. You can even give them a list of your favorite affirmations to help coach you with.
If you plan to write a birth plan, you may want to add a list of positive birth affirmations. This is an important thing to note if you find verbal affirmation helpful – especially in the throes of labor.
How to use birth mantras
Throughout your birth process, your wants and needs may change.
You may find speaking positive affirmations helpful at some points, whereas reading positive sayings may keep negative thinking at bay during other parts.
I recommend doing a few different things:
- Print some birth affirmation cards and decorate your birth space with them. Stick one on the bathroom mirror, another at your bedside, in a frame, or wherever else in your hospital room. You can grab some free printable birth affirmations here
- Print a list of birth affirmations for your support team – whether that be your spouse/partner, birth doula, friend, nurse, midwife, etc.
- Practice reciting positive phrases during pregnancy – both out loud and in your head. With enough repetition, the words will flow during your baby’s birth
The Best Positive Birth Mantras
- My baby and I work together
- Each contraction brings me closer to meeting my baby
- My baby knows how and when to be born
- The birth of my baby is amazing
- I can breathe deeply
- I am calm during my baby’s birth
- I can do this because I am doing this
- I trust my baby
- Each surge brings my baby lower
- I can trust my instincts
- I am safe and secure
- I am strong and able
- I breathe in calm and exhale fear
- My baby and I work in complete harmony
- That contraction is over and I never have to do it again
- I am surrounded by love
- I am excited to meet my baby
- When I relax, my baby relaxes, too
- I trust my body to know what to do
- I can take a deep breath and have a peaceful birth
- My mind is calm
- I am proud of myself
- The strength I need is within me
- I can trust myself
- My baby’s birth is a joyful time
- Each surge of my body brings my baby closer to meeting me
- My baby and I work together
- I will relax and let my cervix open
- I am calm as I wait for the next contraction
- I welcome each surge as my cervix opens
- I was made for this
- Women all over the world are birthing with me right now
- I feel empowered and capable
- My baby is coming soon
- I am focused and strong
Birth Mantras For Pain
- My body is opening for my baby
- I can do anything for 60 seconds
- I ride each wave with confidence
- I am powerful and fearless
- Every surge has a purpose
- I take deep breaths and give them to my baby
- I relax into my contraction to help my body open
- I know I can do this
- I believe in myself
- I am present at my baby’s birth
- My baby is making their way out and I am excited to meet them
- I am doing enough
- I continue to say what I need
- I continue to have a voice and a choice
- My intuition will guide me
- I am the right person to birth my baby
- I am making progress.
- I welcome the pain as it helps my body open
- This is normal
- This is part of the natural process
- My body’s strength is unmatched
- My body is amazing
- I do not doubt myself
- I am stronger than my contractions because I am my contractions
- Each powerful surge has a purpose
- This is a sacred time for me and my baby
- I am worthy of a powerful birth
- My mind and body relax together
- I am unafraid, my baby is unafraid
- I feel my body melt and relax between each surge
Birth affirmations for pushing
- I am almost done
- I can feel my baby move lower and lower
- I am stronger than I realize
- My baby and I work together
- I am ready to meet my baby
- I am excited to see what my baby looks like
- My mind and my body work together
- My body opens and stretches to make room for my little one
- I am ready to rest with my baby
- I am the strongest I have ever been
Positive Words For A Cesarean Section
- My baby is making a safe exit
- My team knows what to do
- I trust my doctor to deliver my baby safely
- I will give myself space to heal
- I will let go and be present
- I am excited to meet my baby
- I am surrounded by people who love me
- My baby is loved and supported
- I can lean on others for support
- I created a beautiful life
- I am enough
- My body is strong
Mantras For When Plans Change
- I make the choice that is best for my baby and myself
- I trust doctors and nurses to care for me
- I trust myself to make the right choices
- I have a voice and I have a choice
- I give myself space to grieve
- My baby’s birth story is beautiful
- I do not fear the unexpected
- A different experience is not always a bad experience
- I trust myself to receive medical advice and make good decisions
- My birth experience is my own
Birth mantras for the support person (dads, partners, etc.)
- I am so proud of you
- I believe in you
- Let me support you
- Tell me how I can help
- I’m with you
- You are so strong and capable
- I am in awe of you
- You can lean into me
- I trust your ability to birth the baby
- Let’s inhale and exhale together
Want some printable birth affirmations? Click here for a free, instant download.
Whether you plan for an unmedicated birth or not, using positive mantras are a powerful way to birth with confidence. You can write your own birth affirmations or use some from the list above.
Either way, know that you are capable of having a positive mindset with whatever your birth may bring!